Tom writes: "Gradually I stopped reading 'Sharing Dee.' The never-ending diet of graphic sex, graphic photos (many of them rather crude in execution, not just subject matter) dulled any titillation factor for me. A non-stop parade of the same images and stories simply isn't erotic after awhile, at least not for me. I don't disparage their site or those who eagerly consume it's hard-core offerings, though apparently even Joe, Dee's husband, has tired of the conceit and struggles to find new material. No, it's simply not me."
There are quite a few distinct points for me to chew on in there and it's my nature to pick things apart and roll them around on my tongue to distinguish the flavors. That's what I did with Tom's points as I drifted off to sleep last night and as I savored my coffee this morning before starting to write this reaction. As with many things, I tend to hit the ground running when I'm fired up about something. As noted above, I don't sit back quietly to ponder options when I'm "inspired." I react viscerally to things both good and bad. I appreciate life's pleasures not like a cultured gent but more like a half-starved lion devouring something with big, brown eyes that he just dragged from its herd. That's how I started this blog - without a clear mission, purpose, or goal. Maybe to respond to Tom's charges I need a clearer sense of my purpose here and then to assess, though backwards, my accomplishments in light of that raison d'être and to consider some of his specific points.
So, what prompted "Sharing Dee" and what keeps it going? No one, huge, all-encompassing thing.
"graphic sex, graphic photos"- I love the sight of Dee's nude body. Perfect? No, but no other body in the universe makes my heart pound and my dick stand at attention as hers does. I like showing her off to the guys who like seeing her. If she happens to have a hard cock poking into one of her holes, all the better to firm up those dicks. It's just an extension of who I am. Lingerie pictures do nothing for me. I'm an explicit person and "Sharing Dee" simply reflects that. Conceit? Sure, but Tom says it as if it's a bad thing.
As for "(many of them rather crude in execution, not just subject matter)" about the photos... I never claimed to be an artist with the camera so I see that particular comment as just a cheap shot. I don't take pictures to stroke my chin and ponder the lighting and other nuances of composition. It's something else entirely that I anticipate stroking when I view them.
"non-stop parade of the same images and stories"- I seek to understand myself. Why, ultimately, do I get such extreme pleasure in watching Dee fuck another man? I don't know. What I do here at the blog is often an attempt to identify what's in a sealed bag without being able to peer inside and then to describe the contents to others. I find us evolving, so the answers I might have given a few years ago wouldn't be the same now. Hence the revisiting of themes in almost cyclic fashion - to find things I might have missed the first five times around.
"struggles to find new material" - Sure I do. I think of "Sharing Dee" as more of a trip than a destination and daily my readers are invited along for the ride. As in real life, much of a drive is simply around the neighborhood running errands, keeping appointments, picking up groceries. Much of what you see is the same old stuff, but if you're in tune with what's out the window on a ride, there are many things to be seen that can put a smile on your face even if they're quite familiar. No, I can't promise a trip to the amusement park every day, but you're welcome to ride along wherever I'm going.
Among other reasons for starting "Sharing Dee" and keeping it going...
- Miracles do happen. That we ended up doing this - taking to beds for Dee to enjoy sex with a variety of other men is nothing short of making the impossible real. I like to encourage all those guys who visit "Sharing Dee" to participate in this vicariously because their own wives won't do it. Nobody who knew Dee all her life would imagine that she might do and enjoy this. I don't want the guys with wives like that to lose sight of hope.
- Every day since we made our first online appearance with some details about our experiences with others I've gotten e-mails full of questions. If I'd answered every one of them with sufficient detail writing mails would become a full time endeavor. I use this blog to try to explain what we do and why we do it as best I can without having to chain myself here to this chair in order to reply individually to everybody who writes.
- I want to make you cock or clit tingle a little.
There are many sex blogs and we all have a different flavor. This one's mine. I could put on my best pseudo intellectual hat like many others to crank out my daily posts, but then they wouldn't be any fun to write. I'm glad to have the readers who enjoy what I offer even when it's just another trip around the same block with too many dirty pictures.
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