Tuesday, May 30, 2006

Mindset of a Voyeur

Easily Aroused makes a fantastic point in an explanation of what he likes and doesn't like in erotica of a pictorial nature: "...if I happen to be looking at erotic or explicit imagery, I'm almost certainly doing so with the mindset of a voyeur. I don't want to make believe that I'm a participant." An absolutely brilliant observation of something I've been trying to voice myself for a long time but without consciously realizing it!

So often when I receive mails in response to picture sets I've posted at the newsgroups or in an occasional posting forum I'm asked why I don't set down the camera more often and jump into the action myself. The answer is, for the most part, what E.A. explained above and in more detail in his post. When I'm in a sharing Dee situation, my primary focus is on watching. Watching Dee work her magic on a man's excited dick - watching her stroke him, lick him, suck him. Watching her lie back with her creamy thighs apart for her lover to put his tongue to her vulva. Watching him lap at her crease, tweak at her nipples, explore her holes with his fingers. Watching her kick her heels high and wide with a look on her face almost like pain as she waits impatiently for her lover to shove his hard cock into her steaming cunt. Watching that stiff piece of dickmeat saw at her pussy or asshole to make her cum, and cum, and cum. Watching her lover's semen start to ooze from the tight seal where her opening clings to his shaft as evidence of the ultimate pleasure that she's giving to him and then drip from her body when his cock is spent and withdraws.

I can have all the Dee I want any time I want to, but on an evening with a friend I can have something that I can't have at home. I can sit back, relax, and watch intently. Watch real sex happening right before my eyes. I can smell it. I can hear it. And when I do put that camera down and hop on the bed later in the evening I can touch and taste it all too.

Sure I love sex with Dee, but it's not always about doing. Watching is on equal par in ways that I still can't begin to explain.


When I'm watching Dee make love with somebody I'm enjoying
it cerebrally as much as she and her lover are physically.
If I'm on the couch stroking my cock while I'm watching
them, it's because that's where I want to be.
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5 comments:

TheChief said...

Nice shot... I love these pics of Dee. And Lady has mentioned that you have a lovely cock!

AlwaysArousedGirl said...

Now THAT is an awesome picture, my friend!

Nice work!

All that with your cock in your hand.

That is talent.

Mac said...

Your photography expertise is improving greatly, Joe.

GeorgeVanna said...

wonderful photo, joe

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Desireous said...

Holy Crap Joe! I missed this post! I thought you weren't updating since it wasn't showing up on my blog roll like its supposed to when you do. This is an awesome picture, simply awesome!
Now I have to go read the rest of the stuff I've missed in your blog. Darn blogroll!

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Des