Friday, July 07, 2006

That's Not How We Do It

I like it when I'm struggling to come up with something to write here and then, from out of the blue, as if on cue, comes something worthily thought provoking. Now, this isn't to say that our evening yesterday with Don wasn't spectacular; it assuredly was! I just don't feel like rehashing it here now after already investing about an hour this morning to describe it elsewhere. So, here I was squeezing my brain for an idea and then this, from Cheri, landed in my inbox in regards to Dan's annoying hesitancy which I've recently ranted about here.

"I know you and Dee are always together on your evenings but maybe take baby steps. Dee with him alone and work your way up."

Nope. Ain't gonna happen. As Dee would tell you herself, "We're a package deal." She genuinely prefers for me to be there when she's making love with somebody else. I want to be there. Sharing Dee isn't figurative; it's literal. All in all I'd bet anything that Dan would prefer to bed Dee without me in the picture, but it's simply not an option. I'm extremely turned off by the cuckold thing - where a guy shares his wife while taking on a role of total submission to his wife's lover's wants and needs. If I'm on the sidelines for a while in a motel room, I'm there by choice, but I'm there in that room where my wife's darling ass is being pinned to a mattress by another man's cock. If somebody's not man enough to make love with my wife in front of me, then he has no place being with her in a bedroom. It's how we do it. Dan can take that, or he can leave it.

And I swear this is the last Dan post until he at the very least has the balls to shake my hand and say hello.


Rest assured that we had a great time with Don last evening!
Here I am giving the camera a big thumb's up
while I'm watching Dee ride Don's long one.



Late Breaking News on the Dan Front...

He told Dee today that he's attracted to her but he wouldn't be comfortable doing it with her with somebody else in the room. So that's the official end of it unless he overcomes that bugaboo.
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9 comments:

RobbieG said...

Joe,
I agree with you. This is the lifestyle you two chose and it works well for both of you. You're comfortable with it. If Dan isn't a willing participant, then he won't be a participant at all. If we wants an extramarital affair with someone alone, he needs to look for it.

RobbieG said...

On the Dan update...his loss.

MikeCindynJoe said...

 
I agree with your terms... after all, they're YOUR terms. You've invited him to join in your game. Since it's your game, it's your rules.

As crazy as we've been in the last three years, we ONLY play together. Our terms also.

Mike

P.S. I also agree with robbieg... Dan's loss

AlwaysArousedGirl said...

The poor boy is shy. His loss.

Love that picture, Joe.

Mac said...

I agree with you wholeheartedly, Joe. You and Dee established the rules and if someone whom you two have honored with an invitation chooses not to accept those rules, it just too bad. Hooray for you. Stick to your guns. I only wish I was Dan. Things would be different.

Cheri said...

Glad I can get the energy flowing!! lol Especially after your after note, I do agree. It seems Dan is only interested in an affair. And since both of you are happy with the way things are, then it's truly his loss. Can't wait to hear about your night.

Desireous said...

Cool pic! Love it!

hugs
Des

stroker said...

Awesome blog, so honest and heartfelt and so, so erotic-- I would love to fuck Dee while you sucked me..nothing turns me on than two people who want to make each other feel good and refuse to censor their pleasure...hopefully some day I might have the oppotunity to be fortunate enough to share Dee...

Shel said...

Right there wit'cha, brother... Keep it a package deal. However, Dan may ALSO be dealing with an inner bisexuality, which he can't (or isn't willing to) wrap his brain around at this time... Patience, patience...

Shel